For
years I have been trying to understand a certain passage in the Bible. The
verse is:
1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love.
But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with
punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
I
have listened to many pastors, teachers, evangelist, and instructors. I have read
many opinions on this subject, also studied the Bible, and meditated the verses
dealing with love. But in my life I have had doubts, unbelief and placed myself
under condemnation in some way, which opens the door to fear. We all know that
fear does have punishment that comes with it, in the form of torment. I am not
unfamiliar with love; I know God loved us so much He sent His Son. God
introduce me to my wife (the love of my life) and we have four kids that I love
with all my heart. God saved my wife from cancer by His love. Also God has saved me
hundreds of times in my lifetime. I was a “chance” in a million to even be born
(hence the name Chance) and I am alive and well today doing missionary work in
Bulgaria. I still struggled with this verse in understanding the full meaning
of “no fear in love”, that is, until yesterday.
I
am the type person that God has to occasionally hit over the head with a 2x4 to
get my attention. Yesterday God showed me what love is about in His unique way
concerning me (no 2X4 this time). Dee Dee and I took a friend and his family to
visit his mother. When we arrived at the home for women in the mountains,
several women came running to the front gate to greet my friend. One of the
caretakers came to the gate and was informed he wanted to see his mother. We
were going to take her and have a picnic under the apple tree beside the home.
While this is going on Dee Dee and I were sitting in the car waiting and then I
noticed the caretaker escorting an elderly lady. All of a sudden the elderly
lady stopped, the caretaker starting pulling the elderly lady. The elderly lady
sat on the ground, the caretaker started dragging her, and then the elderly
lady pulled away from the caretaker in absolute fear, hiding in some bushes.
The caretaker walked up to the gate and let my friend in the front gate, at the
same time the elderly lady crawled out from under the bushes and was sprinting
away in the opposite direction of the caretaker. Then my friend starting
calling, “Momma, momma!” At this point
the elderly lady saw her son and came running….all of her doubts, unbelief and
fears were gone…she was running to her son. After kissing and hugging her son
in an unbelievable embrace, Dee Dee and I wiped the tears from our eyes and
looked at each other and said, “Love casts out fear”!
When
we start learning how much God loves us and realize that He cares for us, we
can start to walk in that love. We have to start by getting to know God, and knowing
that He is the God of love. To run to
His perfect, loving embrace and let it cast all of our fears away.
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